THE SHORT ANSWER:

WHAT:
A 10 session seminar to support moving constructively through the difficult process of ending a committed love relationship, usually a marriage, and building the awareness and skills to create a vibrant life beyond divorce.

FOR WHOM:
Anyone who is divorced, is in the process of divorcing, is separated or not and considering divorce, or has ended a significant non-married love relationship.

WHEN: November 3, 2010.

WHERE: Solution Focused Counseling  1100 N Beech Bldg 8, Normandy Village, Normal IL.

CONTACTS:
FOR QUESTIONS/BROCHURE:

Kathryn Tornquist 309-452-8242 or
Ron Maier 309-828-2965

REGISTRATION:

Heartland College 309-268-8193

THE LONG ANSWER:

Divorce Hurts.

The end of any love relationship can be filled with painful, overwhelming feelings:
sadness, fear, anger, guilt, loneliness, relief and confusion.

Questions arise: How did this all happen? What do I do with my feelings? Who am I—really?
How do I deal with the children? How do I begin to live again? And the answers come too slowly.

THIS SEMINAR WILL GIVE YOU TOOLS TO…

• Understand how and why relationships end

• Better handle the stressors of adjusting to separation or divorce

• Increase your self-confidence and self-esteem

• Understand how and why feelings occur

• Deal more effectively with upsetting emotions such as grief, anger, fear

and guilt

• Avoid the pitfalls and the destructive patterns that cause relationships

to deteriorate

WORDS FROM OUR GRADS

“This class helped me to see why some things were happening even when they made
no sense to me It was very helpful in learning ways to deal with the feelings and emotions that I am experiencing now.”

“I really was helped by this class and don’t know how others make it through
without it.”

“I learned I wasn’t alone in my feelings.”

“I learned new viewpoints and realized that the feelings I had were OK and
how to use that realization to aid in the healing process.”

“I came out of this class with less fear. I gained strength and self-esteem.”

“I felt that days became brighter and hope was there.”

“I found this seminar the singularly most important thing I’ve done in order to get on with my life.”

“This class was the best present I could have given myself.”

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